love you bear

Introduction

INDIVIDUAL work

Duration

Tools

I'm in a long distance relationship, and I feel it hard every day. There are many people around me who have similar experiences. So I wanted to explore the deep causes of our daily distress and why long-distance relationships are so difficult to maintain. I want to make my own contribution to ease the difficulties of long-distance relationships. This design holds some potential value and possibilities for the future, potentially evolving into a form of communication between AI and humans.

User Research

Co-design

Interaction Design

Modeling

User Test

Prototype Fabrication

7/20/2022 - 9/15/2022

Rhino

Keyshot

3D Print

Arduino

Figma

The long-distance relationships

Many individuals are currently navigating long-distance relationships. However, the notable breakup rate in such relationships is often linked to challenges like insufficient physical intimacy, a lack of shared interests, and emotional infidelity.

Initiation: couples around me

Persona: by a Study of one couple

What can go wrong with a long-distance relationship?

Conclusion

How long is a long distance relationship?

The average long-distance relationship ends in 4.5 months. The average length of a long-distance relationship is 2.9 years. Couples in proximal relationships, however, stay together for an average of 7.3 years.

Probability of a long-distance relationship breakup

40%

People living in the UK and Europe

“I feel like I'm not in a relationship and I'm lonelier than I was when I was single. I miss you so much, I want to hug you, but you don't return my message again.“

Personality of Keven

Hobbies of Keven

Hobbies of Lily

Personality of Lily

Their means of connection

In the next vacation, Lily will ask for leave from the professor to fly to Shanghai to accompany Kevin's birthday.

About Keven, 25, Shanghai, a programmer

Goals

Work hard and make money

Spend the next Valentine's Day with Lily

Cherish every minute with Lily

I spend most of the week writing code, so I don't have much time to chat with Lily in Shenzhen. To make up for not being able to accompany her, I worked hard, hoping to save money to buy a plane ticket to see her. We only see each other once every three months, so we miss each other very much. But Lily often cried for missing me and even had many negative thoughts. I want to hold her and comfort her, but I can't do anything but text her.

Goals

Learn to control emotions

Become more independent

Learn to understand Kevin

Take care of Kevin's emotions

About Lily, 23, Shenzhen, undergraduate

I am a graduate student. My boyfriend and I are not in the same city because of work. He and I talked on weChat every night. I often call him, but he seldom has time to answer the phone because he is so busy with his work. I began to see that he was sharing less and less with me, that I was less and less aware of who he was now. I'm worried that our interactions are less and less, and our love is less and less too.

They want to live in a city

and have a small family of their own.

optimistic

sensitive

emotional

rational

optimistic

sensitive

emotional

rational

In my long-distance relationship, emotional strain heightened due to limited physical closeness. Despite regular WeChat communication, our exchanges lacked warmth and depth.

“My core challenge centers around feeling lonely and lacking emotional support. When I'm in a bad mood, he can't be there for me, and this has become my major source of distress in my current situation.”

30 mins phone calls

text messages

video chat

Travel for each other

90.00% Having been in a long-distance relationship

Colledge couples in the US

76.53% Having been in a long-distance relationship at one time

Lack of physical intimacy

emotional infidelity

Insecurity and jealousy

No End Date in Sight

Less time to interact with the real world

Experiencing communication issues

Nothing to Talk About

The conversations are always surface level

Not Expressing Feelings & Emotions

Difficult Time Zones

Feeling disconnected

The current state of long-distance relationships in the United States

Rhino

Keyshot

3D Print

Arduino

Figma

7/20/2022 - 9/15/2022

User Research

Co-design

Interaction Design

Modeling

User Test

Prototype Fabrication

I'm in a long distance relationship, and I feel it hard every day. There are many people around me who have similar experiences. So I wanted to explore the deep causes of our daily distress and why long-distance relationships are so difficult to maintain. I want to make my own contribution to ease the difficulties of long-distance relationships. This design holds some potential value and possibilities for the future, potentially evolving into a form of communication between AI and humans.

love you bear

Introduction

INDIVIDUAL work

Duration

Tools

The long-distance relationships

Many individuals are currently navigating long-distance relationships. However, the notable breakup rate in such relationships is often linked to challenges like insufficient physical intimacy, a lack of shared interests, and emotional infidelity.

Initiation: couples around me

Persona: by a Study of one couple

What can go wrong with a long-distance relationship?

Conclusion

How long is a long distance relationship?

The average long-distance relationship ends in 4.5 months. The average length of a long-distance relationship is 2.9 years. Couples in proximal relationships, however, stay together for an average of 7.3 years.

Probability of a long-distance relationship breakup

40%

People living in the UK and Europe

“I feel like I'm not in a relationship and I'm lonelier than I was when I was single. I miss you so much, I want to hug you, but you don't return my message again.“

Personality of Keven

Hobbies of Keven

Hobbies of Lily

Personality of Lily

Their means of connection

In the next vacation, Lily will ask for leave from the professor to fly to Shanghai to accompany Kevin's birthday.

About Keven, 25, Shanghai, a programmer

Goals

Work hard and make money

Spend the next Valentine's Day with Lily

Cherish every minute with Lily

I spend most of the week writing code, so I don't have much time to chat with Lily in Shenzhen. To make up for not being able to accompany her, I worked hard, hoping to save money to buy a plane ticket to see her. We only see each other once every three months, so we miss each other very much. But Lily often cried for missing me and even had many negative thoughts. I want to hold her and comfort her, but I can't do anything but text her.

Goals

Learn to control emotions

Become more independent

Learn to understand Kevin

Take care of Kevin's emotions

About Lily, 23, Shenzhen, undergraduate

I am a graduate student. My boyfriend and I are not in the same city because of work. He and I talked on weChat every night. I often call him, but he seldom has time to answer the phone because he is so busy with his work. I began to see that he was sharing less and less with me, that I was less and less aware of who he was now. I'm worried that our interactions are less and less, and our love is less and less too.

They want to live in a city

and have a small family of their own.

optimistic

sensitive

emotional

rational

optimistic

sensitive

emotional

rational

In my long-distance relationship, emotional strain heightened due to limited physical closeness. Despite regular WeChat communication, our exchanges lacked warmth and depth.

“My core challenge centers around feeling lonely and lacking emotional support. When I'm in a bad mood, he can't be there for me, and this has become my major source of distress in my current situation.”

30 mins phone calls

text messages

video chat

Travel for each other

90.00% Having been in a long-distance relationship

Colledge couples in the US

76.53% Having been in a long-distance relationship at one time

Lack of physical intimacy

emotional infidelity

Insecurity and jealousy

No End Date in Sight

Less time to interact with the real world

Experiencing communication issues

Nothing to Talk About

The conversations are always surface level

Not Expressing Feelings & Emotions

Difficult Time Zones

Feeling disconnected

The current state of long-distance relationships in the United States

Journey map: a day of a couple in distance

Design statement

Brainstorming

The Ideal System

How might we solve the problem of lack of communication and interaction between long-distance couples by making something suitable for long-distance couples, so as to increase the success rate of long-distance relationship?

fixed communication style

lack of topics

lack of emotional expression

lack of physical interaction

Create interaction opportunities beyond traditional communication

Provide other sensory interactions than visual and auditory

Enhance intimacy in life between long-distance couples

Design opportunities stem from identified pain points. These include improving messaging speed, exploring alternative communication methods, enhancing rapid information retrieval, developing a real-time update platform for partners, and creating a product that addresses couples' communication reluctance.

Use

Use

Use

Use

data

control

control

feedback

The girl’s puppet

The boy’s puppet

feedback

feedback

feedback

signals

signals

data

Randomly generated topic app

A pillow to sleep with

Long-distance couples emotional record app

A product that simulates a hug

Long distance relationship difficulties help app

Remote two-player game

A player to listen to songs together

Museum of Long-distance Couples

A puppet that can hold hands with

A product can give feedback in times of loneliness

A product with a very cute face

A product with an expression

The Tangible hardware & Interaction Design by co-creation

According to the co-creation, I also conclude 3 different messages that need interaction to convey.

The 2nd type of emotional message and indications need more designs.

Participants co-create and all mention the pixel style. Therefore, the final UI is by pixel.

I wanna hug.

I am happy.

A message comes.

I want to talk to you.

I am going to rest.

I wanna touch you.

I am angry.

I wanna hug.

I am happy.

A message comes.

I am angry.

Most people would like the product to be a phone case or a puppet that can be held in their hands, because they are easy to carry and can be used at any time.

The different prototypes are played by participants. The preferred prototype is chosen and they also create interesting interactions with the prototype, which inspire the design.

Interactions are selected by participant’s play.

1st co-creation - what it should be like?

2nd co-creation - the handy size & potential interaction

3rd design: messages by the tangible interaction

4th co-creation: the emotional message - info interaction

5th design: some finalizatons

“The large puppet is more comfortable to pinch and hold”

“I like the feeling of holding”

A body touch from the other side

A body touch from the other side

A emotional feeling to each other

Instant messages on the phone

A emotional feeling to each other

Instant text messages on phones

“I want this product to show my feelings to my girlfriend.”

“Sometimes I just want to keep track of my girlfriend's messages. If only the product could tell me if she wants to talk to me.”

“ I hope to have more contact with the product, I hope I pinch his foot, his foot will vibrate, and then I can put it on my face, very comfortable.”

The Assisted APP

Information architecture

Wireframe

LO-FI & Testing

Log in

Emoji DIY

Records of communi

Memorizing space

Home - connection

Connection Setting

Emoji DIY

Records of communication

Couples’ memorize space

Based on the user flow, I made a low-fidelity diagram. I invited some users to use my prototype. In the process of using it, the users pointed out some problems, and I made corresponding improvements based on these problems.

Improvements 👇

Storyboard: Now, this is my day with my boyfriend

Lily didn't see Keven's message, so he squeezed the puppet's hand to remind her.

Keven is in a good mood and wants to share his happiness with Lily.

Keven is under a great stress, so he touches the puppet's belly to show he wants a hug.

When Lily saw the icon lit up on the puppet's face, she understood Keven's intention.

Lily is happy to see the smile the puppet gave her.

Lily sees the puppet wants a hug, so she presses the puppets’ arms to give him a hug.

Lily is not happy. She pinches the puppet's ears to show her anger.

Keven pinches the puppet's leg.

Keven sees the puppet's swinging arms and puts his finger between its arms for a warm hug. He feels better now.

Keven found the puppet angry, he quickly talked to Lily.

The puppet's legs vibrate and Lily holds it to his face. She feels comfortable.

Lily touches the puppet's head to let Keven know that she needs to rest.

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